i am seriously not getting what i am how to do it started in 2017 but failed the continue now being 21+ i fill like i am waste in world cheating self and parents my uncle helping me alot but i am loser who can't do anything in life past haunting me i fill like jab kl nhi hua tho aaj kese hoga age 21

Hello,

Do not be so hard on yourself. See each one of us is unique and different. Some of us may see success really soon while for the others it may take some time. But the key thing is to have patience. Just do your part, work hard and be dedicated to your goal. Do not cry over your past, rather be optimistic and make sure that you will do your best starting from this very instant.

For becoming successful you need to have good concentration. I understand it becomes really difficult to concentrate on your studies, specially during this time.

Below I will share some tips that will help you to concentrate better:

• Find a time which is best suitable for you to study. Some find it better to concentrate in the morning while others find they can do better in the night.

• Decide what portions you would like to finish in that particular day

• Prepare a timetable according to the above, keeping slots for breaks

• Start studying with your favorite subject, so that you don’t get bored from the beginning itself

• Take breaks when you get bored, and try to avoid studying at a stretch for a longer duration.

• Always keep some time apart for your hobbies, exercise, etc.

• Eat healthy food, sleep well and also socialise. A healthy mind is the most important for good concentration

• Do some mind games like Sudoku, Crossword puzzles, Chess, etc

• Also try meditation

Following these I am sure you will be able to improve your concentration and thereby become successful

Please do not be so hard on yourself and stay positive.

Good Luck